Say What You See with Chris Marr

episode artwork

Chris Marr

22 April 2025

27m 10s

Why every client relationship fails (and how to stop yours from doing the same)

00:00

27:10

👉 Join my coaching programme: https://theauthoritativecoach.com/essentials

👉 Get my 16 Conversations playbook: https://theauthoritativecoach.com/workshop/the-client-success-conversation-playbook/

Is your client onboarding process quietly setting you up to fail?

If you've ever felt frustrated by missed deadlines, unclear communication, or clients who seem to check out mid-project… this episode is for you.

In this episode of Say What You See, I walk you through six essential conversations you should be having with every new client before the work begins. Whether you're a coach, consultant, or any client-facing professional — these conversations will help you set clearer expectations, avoid predictable problems, and establish peer-level trust with your clients right from the outset.

What this episode helps you solve:

  • The silent killers of successful client relationships — unspoken assumptions, poor expectation-setting, and creeping scope.
  • The trap of jumping into delivery mode without laying a proper foundation.
  • Feeling like you're improvising every client relationship — even though you're the expert.

Why it’s worth your time:

  • You'll leave with six practical, real-world conversations that can strengthen your next client onboarding immediately.
  • You'll gain confidence in how you lead relationships, and learn how to communicate your boundaries clearly and respectfully.
  • You'll know how to pre-empt issues like missed deadlines, stress, and messy communication before they disrupt the work.

Here’s what you’ll take away from this episode:

  • The Doubt Conversation: how to surface and channel internal friction before it festers
  • The Time Commitment Conversation: how to help clients carve out space for success
  • The Communication Expectations Conversation: how to reduce chaos and set clear norms
  • The Scope and Boundaries Conversation: protect your energy and avoid overwork
  • The Feedback & Candour Conversation: make honesty a standard part of your working relationship
  • The Define-the-Relationship Conversation: a powerful way to start every new engagement

You can download the 16 Conversations Playbook to integrate this work into your client onboarding process.

Get it here: https://theauthoritativecoach.com/workshop/the-client-success-conversation-playbook/

Already watched? I’d love to hear from you:

  • Which one of these six conversations are you going to try first?
  • How do you currently set expectations — and what might you shift after watching this?
  • Share your takeaways or experiences in the comments — I’d love to learn from you too.

Let’s talk—drop your thoughts in the comments.

🗣️ 👀

Chris

Copyright © Say What You See with Chris Marr. All rights reserved.

Powered by